It is possible
to have children
and no descendants.

My friend Jimmie taught me the term "disenfranchised grief" earlier this year. It signals a loss that is not perceived legitimately by society. My experience with disenfranchised grief comes in two forms: First, in saying goodbye to my foster kids, and Second, in letting go of the desire to be a mother in a permanent way.

However you have experienced disenfranchised grief, I want you to know that I'm dedicated to creating work that legitimizes your experience, especially in my forthcoming series that I'm beginning work on soon.

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"Fallen Fruit" self-portrait October 2022
Inspired by the phrase "fruit of my loins", and further questioning what life looks like without.

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